Day 7 of the 31 Day SexGeek Challenge. Today we are talking about Hard Limits
In BDSM Hard Limits and Kinks are an oft discussed topic.
I love this as open communication as what you like and what you don’t like isn’t publicly encouraged among adults as a rule (which is unfortunate).
Some of my first experiences in the kink world were filled with these discussions, whether an in-depth conversation or perusal of shared questionnaires online.
Whats great about these discussions is they can introduce you to new kinks but they can also alert you to kinks you never knew about and wish you’d never heard of (how I learned about a few of my hard limits).
My Hard Limits
The following is not a complete list.
- Golden Showers
- Roman Showers
- Urethral Sounding or anything urethral for that matter
- Anal Fisting
- Duct tape mummification
- Gun play
- Face hitting
- Public marking (all scars or long lasting marks must be able to be covered by clothing)
- Various illegal activities especially those involving minors
What are Your Hard Limits?
Tell me in the comments! Have you ever changed them? I’d love to know how you navigated that.